Dear Fathers and Sisters in Christ,
I recently found this excerpt from a letter Tertullian wrote to his wife and want to share it with you.  It is my hope that we will all take the time to read it with our spouse and to consider what we can take from it to strengthen our marriage.

–From a letter of Tertullian to his wife, ca. 202 AD

How shall we ever be able adequately to describe the happiness of that marriage which the Church arranges, the Sacrifice strengthens, upon which the blessing sets a seal, at which angels are present as witnesses, and to which the Father gives His consent?  For not even on earth do children marry properly and legally without their fathers’ permission.

How beautiful, then, the marriage of two Christians, two who are one in hope, one in desire, one in the way of life they follow, one in the religion they practice.  They are as brother and sister, both servants of the same Master.  Nothing divided them, either in flesh or in spirit.  They are, in very through, two in one flesh; and where there is but one flesh there is also but one spirit.   They pray together, they worship together, they fast together; instructing one another, encouraging one another, strengthening one another.  Side by side they visit God’s church and partake of God’s Banquet; side by side they face difficulties and persecution, share their consolations.  They have no secrets from one another; they never shun each other’s company; they never bring sorrow to each other’s hearts.  Unembarrassed they visit the sick and assist the needy.  They give alms without anxiety; they attend the Sacrifice without difficulty; they perform their daily exercises of piety without hindrance.  They need not be furtive about making the Sign of the Cross, nor timorous in greeting the brethren, nor silent in asking a blessing of God.  Psalms and Hymns they sing to one another, striving to see which one of them will chant more beautifully the praises of their Lord.  Hearing and seeing this, Christ, rejoices.  To such as these He gives His peace.  Where there are two together, there also He is present; and where He is, there evil is not.