This article, “What I Can and Can’t Discuss at Home,” by Michael E. Phillips, addresses some of the matters clergy couples can consider in the ongoing challenge of what the husband and wife share with one another, particularly what the husband shares with the wife about the parish.  The article is written from a Protestant perspective; thus, it does not account for priestly and confessional confidentiality.  However, it does provide some insight that may be helpful and informative.

Here is the link:  https://www.christianitytoday.com/pastors/1988/spring/what-can-cant-discuss-home.html?utm_source=leadership-html&utm_medium=Newsletter&utm_term=22875705&utm_content=602971010&utm_campaign=email